Male Sex Toys

There are many more male sex toys available in the adult market than you would expect. The traditional favourite of men everywhere, the cock ring, is now successfully being rivalled by anal sex toys, anal beads, dildos, anal douches, vibrators, sex dolls, gay sex toys such as anal plugs and prostate stimulators, male masturbators, penis sleeves, chastity belts, penis pumps and male sex enhancement products.

Cock Rings and Toys

Traditionally worn at the base of the penis, a cock ring can maintain an erection that can be thicker, firmer and longer lasting due to it restricting the blood flow to the penis. This can therefore be beneficial to both partners. Cock rings in the form of sex toys are usually made from silicone or rubber, which have a slight give in them. Some silicone cock rings even have removable vibrating bullets included and some have clitoral stimulating nodules attached for added gratification for the female partner. Cock rings that are made of leather or metal are classified as cock and ball torture devices as they have very little, or in the case of the metal cock rings, no give in them at all and are for men that are more into pleasure and pain than merely pleasure. Male chastity devices also fit into this category. Intended to keep the male under lock and key, an erection is virtually impossible to achieve whilst wearing one.

Anal Sex Toys

Anal sex toys such as anal douches, anal beads and anal plugs (also known as butt plugs) can be used by men and women alike. This can also be said for anal vibrators. As one of the oldest forms of sex aids anal beads are available in a variety of lengths each containing differing numbers of beads. These beads usually get larger the further down the string you go. Anal beads are designed to dramatically increase orgasmic sensations if withdrawn at the point of ecstasy. Anal plugs are often bulbous in design and stimulate the anal passage when thrust in and out. They are usually made of silicone for easier insertion and come in varying sizes, most of which have a suction cup base so they will stick to almost any surface, leaving hands free for other pursuits. Vibrators usually come in the form of vibrating butt plugs and multispeed anal vibrators. Male g-spot vibrators, as the name suggests, are solely designed for the benefit of men, and have a specially curved tip aimed at stimulating this region. Prostrate stimulators are also specifically for the arousal of men.

Penis Pumps

Male sex pumps, also known as penis pumps, aim to enhance not only the girth of the penis but also the length and the hardness. This is achieved by placing the penis in a cylinder which is attached to a hand pump. When the pumping action is applied a vacuum in the cylinder is achieved causing additional blood to rush to the penis. Some pumps also come with multispeed vibrators built in often leading to a more quickly achievable erection. The size augmentation of the penis is only designed to be a temporary measure however some pumps claim that if used regularly this will result in a permanent increase in length and girth.

Male Masturbators and Sex Dolls

For masturbatory pleasures, as well as consisting of penis pumps (which can also be categorised as male masturbators), male sex aids consist of penis sleeves that have patterns and nodules on the inside to provide different sensations and can be either single or open ended, oral sex simulators, realistic feeling replica vaginas and anuses, and penis tubes which also consist of varying inner sleeves, some of which vibrate. Sex dolls, featuring up to three different tight, succulent love holes depending on the model, are becoming increasing popular. They are not just used as male masturbators but are also employed for fun threesome activities with a partner.

Moreover, with male sex enhancement products that are intended to increase the volume of sperm released, pheromones to increase sexual appeal and sprays to heighten the quality and longevity of an erection also commonplace, there are an abundance of sex toys and enhancers available for men nowadays.

Lesbian Sex Toys

Whether you are new or experienced in the use of lesbian sex toys you may be surprised by the amount of choice that is now available on the current market. No longer are lesbian sex toys merely associated with strap ons and doubled ended dildos, although these types of products are still a popular choice amongst the lesbian community.

Strap ons in their traditional guise consist of a dildo that is attached to a harness that is worn around the waist and thighs similar to a pair of briefs. The harness is sometimes supplied with a number of O ring attachments so that if the dildo is detachable, it can easily be replaced with another one that has a different girth measurement. Although these strap ons are still a fashionable choice, there are now a number of different alternatives available. Strap ons now come with wireless and wired multispeed vibrators available as an alternative to dildos. A more recent development is the strapless strap on, either with or without vibration, which as the name suggests, does not include any harness or strapping, but instead comes with a bulbous shaped protrusion which can be inserted into either the anus or the vagina and allows for simultaneous pleasure to both partners.

Double ended dildos or double enders, come in the form of the conventional dildo but are considerably longer which allows for double penetration. Usually in the form of jelly dildos to ensure more easy insertion and better flexibility, double enders are also available with variable speed vibrating action and come in a selection of different lengths and girths depending on personal preference.

Love eggs and pleasure balls can be used in either the vagina or the anus. Either elliptical or circular in shape, these adult toys usually have a soft outer coating, sometimes with a nodular surface, and contain internal steel balls. Once inserted, the constant rolling motion can cause extensive pleasure to the user. Often coming as two balls or eggs connected by a sturdy Nylon cord, these sex toys can be used for sole pleasure or by both partners synchronously. Love eggs and pleasure balls also act an effective pelvic floor toner and exerciser, particularly post childbirth or menopause.

Butterfly sex toys or butterfly stimulators are worn as you would do a pair of briefs but there is one significant difference: they have built a built in vibrating action that stimulates the clitoris. This form of clit stimulator sometimes comes with a small penis plug that is inserted into the vagina for simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Clitoral massagers or pumps provide multispeed vibrations to the erogenous zone by causing an increased blood flow to the labia and vaginal area.

Adult toys for lesbians do not just come if the form of products that aim to exhilarate the clitoris, labia, vagina or anus. Female sex pumps can, in most cases, be used on the clitoris and the breasts. By using a hand pump and placing the suction cup over the breasts and nipples a tight vacuum is created thereby generating intense sensations. Some pumps also come with multispeed vibrating action built in to provide additional stimulation.

There are also a considerable number of female sex enhancement products available which intensify female intimate responses whether it is for the nipples, female g-spot or clitoris. With all this in mind, there are a significantly higher number of options available for lesbians today than in previous decades that cater for all budgets and come in a range of different styles, sizes and colours.

Introducing Sex Toys Into The Bedroom

Introducing sex toys into the bedroom can be difficult. You become content with the way you do things, just like washing dishes, you have your way of doing it and you never consider change. It’s boring and tedious. In the same way, sex becomes boring and tedious. You need to ask yourself, how can we add spice to our sexual relationship? In more recent times, women have gained more sexual independence and freedom; they have become more open to introducing sex toys and props for bedroom pleasures to bring back the passion and to experiment with their partner.

Using sex toys in the bedroom during those passion filled and intimate moments is nothing new, but before you rush out to buy the blindfolds and vibrators, you need to be able to openly discuss, with your partner, the possibility of bringing toys into the bedroom. You also need to consider what kinds of sex toys you’d like to bring to your bedroom pleasures. Introducing toys can be a very sensitive subject for couples to discuss so being open about what you would enjoy and which toy you’d like to introduce needs to be discussed and both of you need to be comfortable with the arrangement.

Start with Honest Communication

You need to be mindful of how to start a conversation about sex toys. Choose a time when you are both feeling comfortable and relaxed. You can start by asking your partner an open-ended question about how they feel about sex toys. Then, let your partner know what your views are. In some cases men may see it as a threat, but if you offer reassurance that the toy will be there to bring pleasure to both of you then half your battle is already won.

Explain your reasons for wanting to introduce sex toys to your sexual relationship. Whether it’s trying something new, or wanting to put passion back into your relationship, explain how you feel. Even if you’ve used toys before for self pleasure and now want to bring your partner into the mix, always make them aware of your reasons and that you are not questioning their ability to bring you pleasure.

Shopping for Sex Toys

There is definitely no shortage of options when it comes to choosing sex toys for those bedroom pleasures. The list is endless but you may want to narrow down your options based on what you like. With the recent advancement of technology, sex toys have become more elegant, sexy, luxurious and more affective so seek out the ones that will make you feel that way. If you have never used a toy before then start with something simple that both of you will feel comfortable with. You can always, at a later stage, add to your collection of goodies to further enhance your sexual intimacy and bedroom pleasures.

In addition to the toys, you can make use of massage oils; creams and lubricants to further enhance your experience. Edible lubricants, gels and lotion are also very popular and you’ll find that they add a very sensual dimension to your intimate moments.

Gels and lotions that are edible or heat up with touch are also widely popular. These are great primers for other toys as you can use gels and lotions by themselves or with other items. Many gels are lotions are for lubrication purposes but come in fun scents and can be flavored.

Sex toys can be fun when added to your sexual play and can really bring passion back to a relationship. As long as there is open and honest communication between you and your partner, your toys will always add a new and exciting dimension to your love-making experiences, allowing you and your partner to enjoy them for many year to come.